1/12/2024
An Ache In Your SoulI didn’t think I was going to write a post this week because,
quite honestly~I didn’t want to. I recognized the lack of motivation for what it was, even though I tried to push it aside. After posting two articles on living life to the fullest, somehow melancholy got the best of me. The fact that I’m a homebody didn’t help. I absolutely LOVE to stay home and I would never get tired of it. Give me a snow storm, a cozy fire and a hot cup of coffee, and I’m a happy girl. But when I want to shut the world out and shut myself in, when I recognized that all I wanted to do was sit in front of that fire with my coffee and not have to think about or do anything, I knew something had to change. The problem was, I didn’t want to change. I knew why I was unmotivated and melancholy. Because I’m tired. And because there was an ache in my soul. I have mentioned this before, but I’m that girl that just pushes her sad feelings down. I keep pushing and pushing until they reach my toes, because I don’t want to be unhappy. And I definitely didn’t want to be unhappy at Christmas. So, I went to bed late, I got up early. I stayed busy. I pushed the thoughts aside. I pretended. And it was exhausting. I was missing my friend, and my heart hurt deeply for her husband and daughter. Memories of going through that with my own dad came crashing in on me. Christmas memories surrounded me, and made me miss my parents even more. The ache of sadness wanted to push at me constantly, so instead I pushed it away~ and I kept pushing. And yesterday I realized I needed a reality check. I couldn’t stop thinking about the fact that I didn’t want to write a blog post for Saturday, but the little bit of OCD I have was eating away at me. I have never missed writing a post since I started this page. I couldn’t miss now. And that’s what God used. He uses everything, right down to the tiniest detail to get our attention. God knew I needed rest. I am weak. I’ve been here before and He knows I’ll probably be here again and again. In all His beautiful understanding and infinite mercy, God gave me that time to rest in my own way, and then He told me it was time to get myself up, brush myself off and get back in the fight. God works in the most amazing ways. Over the holidays I had neglected to read devotionals sent to my email. Yesterday as I sat in front of my fire, I decided to read them. I’m sad to admit that it wasn’t because I was getting myself back up and brushing myself off. There was nothing spiritual about it. Once again, it was because of that little piece of OCD in my brain. I wanted to clean up my emails. Simple, regrettable fact. And once again, that’s what God used. A paragraph jumped off the page at me with the words from my friend Linda~ “Why do I write? Is it for love of my Savior or merely because I enjoy it? Is it to bring Him glory and to magnify Him because I'm so in love with Him? That's what He wants. That's what He deserves. That's how He loves me.” I love to write. There’s nothing wrong with that fact, but this week, in my melancholy state, that was my only motivation. Before I read her words, I made up my mind that I wasn’t going to post anything this week. My heart kept telling me there was nothing worthy to give. How could I impart any spiritual wisdom to anyone when I didn’t feel any motivation whatsoever? When I read her words, I realized~ God is my motivation. Jesus is my worth. Not my love for writing, my love for Him and in turn~ for all of you. There isn’t a whole lot of spiritual insight here. Me, spilling my heart out. Just a friend talking to her friends. Sometimes it doesn’t take profound words for God to move. Sometimes it just takes raw honesty and a heart that listens and whispers “I understand. I’ve been there. I love you and I’m praying for you”. Words that tell you that whatever you are going through, you aren’t alone. Words to remind you that God will never leave you, that He will always be there waiting for exactly the right time to say~ “Okay my daughter, it’s time to pick yourself up, brush yourself off and get back in the fight. Let’s do this. Together.” SCRIPTURE READING: Matthew 22:37-3 2 Corinthians 4:6-9 2 Corinthians 4:16-18 1 Peter 5:10-11 |
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